Today's argument

H and I stayed late last night as most of the time. This time it was because of his job issues. He waited for the calls that was agreed by his client and future employers, but they never came. Netherless to say that it was very unsettling to both of us. I felt depressed given I am also very uncertain about my latest pregnancy.

Next morning (today) I was tired but still got up and cooked for me and A. H was late getting up. When we had breakfast, I asked to share the sausage H was having. He cut a half and said "this is for you", I said "I just want a little bit". So he cut a bit and put it on fork, and I took a small bit. I did not want to eat too much because it is salty and unhealthy although I really like the taste. Just as I was planning to slowly enjoyed the sausage, H said "finish it all together now",
Me (in a unhappy tone cause I felt pushed):"later"
Then H was really angry "I need my fork!!!"
I asked him "why do have use such tone to talk?"
H:"You were using it first!" by this time he was shouting and in real range.
I got very upset too. This was morning, I was tired, and the first thing was to hear him shouting. We were immediately in intense argument infront of A.
H argued that he was using bad tone only because I used it first and I was using double standard and ignore my own flaw only saw his flaw.
I told him that if he had problem with my voice or tone he should have told me in calm voice and not to shout. If he did that it should have gone like this:
H: "finish it all together now",
Me:"later"
H: "why did you use such tone?"
M: "You are pushing me to eat"
H: "I Just want that fork"
M: "Sorry I misunderstood you".

The argument ended with me saying even if I was faulting in the first place, he as a guy, should not shout and should be gentle to ladies and he reluctantly apologized, but I could tell he did not feel he was wrong and he just want to make peace.